When you ask someone to do something for you, or ask if you can do something, it's important to sound polite. Here are some of the common ways that you can do this.
Asking someone to do something for you
"Could you open the door for me, please?"
"Would you mind opening the door for me, please?"
"Can you open the door for me, please?'
Speaking tip: could and can are followed by the verb without to. Would you mind is followed by the verb and -ing.
Asking if you can do something
"Can I use your computer, please?"
"Could I borrow some money from you, please?"
"Do you mind if I turn up the heating?"
"Would you mind if I turned up the heating?"
Speaking tip: Could is more polite that can.
Do you mind if…" is followed by the verb in the present tense, but would you mind if… is followed by the verb in the past tense.
When you're using these two sentences, don't use please. It's already polite enough!
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the diference about will and would
can and could
shall and should
We don't use shall or should for making requests, but we can use will / would / can and could. Of all the four, "will" is the most direct, and "would" and "could" the most polite.
I learned alot from this website now l know how to use could, can and would. They make a lot of difference in a request ! Thanks alot
Thank you very much for helping people who are in need of right advice.By reading the content of your website I really improved my english.I wish you very good luck,I woud like to ask you one question Clare
What is the difference between two sentences
do you mind if i turn up the heating and would you mind if turned off heating..could you please explain me..thank you im advance
Do you mind if I turn up the heating? (Simple request)
Would you mind if I turned up the heating? (More polite request)
If somebody knock at my door, before letting them in, how can I communicate with them in a polite way….??? Please help
You can ask "Who is it?"
Hi Clare Thanks 4 ur lessons could u ple. tel me the meaning of "do me a favor" n when we use this
Do me a favour = help me in some way.
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Thank you for helping us because now we are able to improve our mistake thank uClare
Ms Claire, Would, could , are most important polite word. thank u
Ms. Clare,
What is the difference between two sentences and right use of the word "please" there?
1) Would you mind opening the door?
2) Would you mind if you opened the door?
Please explain.
Rgds,
Moshtaque
2 doesn't make sense. You could say "Would you mind if I opened the door?" to show youì're asking permission.
1 is making a request, not asking for permission.
You could put "please" at the end of sentence 1, but not at the end of 2.
