How to write politely
It's important to achieve the right tone when you write. If you sound angry, impatient, or even over-formal, you risk alienating your reader.
Here are some phrases which make you sound impatient when you write:
1. Could you please…
Putting "please" after "could you" makes it sound as if you have already asked the person to do something, and that you are reminding them again. It makes you sound exasperated with the other person. Instead, you could write "Please" at the beginning or the end of the sentence.
"Please could you send me the details of the insurance policy?"
"Could you send me the details of the insurance policy, please?"
Alternatively, omit "please", as using "could you" is already polite enough.
2. Would you be so kind as to…
This phrase makes you sound almost sarcastic, as if you think the other person is likely to refuse your request. In business, a person doesn't need to be "kind" to do something: it's generally their job!
Instead, use a phrase such as "Could you…" or "I'd be grateful if you could…." to make a request.
This word makes you sound angry, or that you think the other person is incompetent and can't do their job properly. It's much better to use a phrase such as "Could you.." to give instructions to someone.
4. Immediately / without further delay
Avoid using these. If something is urgent, use the following expressions:
"As this matter is urgent, I would appreciate a reply as soon as possible."
"I would be grateful for your prompt reply."
"I look forward to hearing from you as soon as possible."
"I look forward to hearing from you at your earliest convenience." (Slightly old-fashioned.)
great tips! thank you!!
"I'd be grateful if you could..." ??I thought no could in if-clauses!?
You can have both could and would in requests:"I'd be grateful if you could send me a catalogue" (As a reply to "Can I give you a hand?" you could say "If you wouldn't mind."
Annie Anish Oommen
Very useful tips!Thank you
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Wow! I was looking for these nuances for such a long time! Very helpful! Thnak You!
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Thank you . Great tips.
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MD OMAR AHMED
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Excellent tips!! Thank you very much!!
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Thought it to be nic
If i wouldn't come..please tell me is it correct sentence or not?
No. It should be either "If I didn't come" or "If I don't come" - depending on what conditional form you want to use. Check out our page on conditional sentences for more information: http://www.english-at-home.com/grammar/if-sentences/
Thanks for that! Very useful =)
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Thanks for the wonderful tips. Keep it up.
I want Know the CORRECT FORM to use?!?
Hi Kelli - I've made suggestions for correct (or more polite) forms to use for each of the four examples. For instance, instead of using "Kindly", you could write "Could you":"Could you return this form to me?" instead of "Kindly return this form to me."Hope that's clearer!
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